The following love list keeps your partner’s love tank full and responsible.
All the 31 ways help you a lot. My wife always amazed by my response. The way I respect, respond, listen and love her, all the beautiful things that happened in our relationship. Because I always remembered all the 31ways in my mind and implemented them from time to time.
I have collected it from the book called “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus” by John Gray and added my personal experienced.
- When you are returning home, the first thing you do anything else, hug her first.
- Please give her a surprise and gift on a special occasion.
- Ask her specific question if she has suffered from one of them.
- Practice the art of listening and asking questions.
- Take a dancing class together or any other hobbies.
- Give her undivided 20 minutes to her.
- Please do not listen to her to reply; listen to understand her.
- Plan a date one week before.
- Sometimes offer to make dinner, but (I don’t know how to cook, so I do offer to wash the dish.)
- Compliment her on how she is looking
- Respect her feeling and upset, try to know the reason behind upset
- Help her when she is tired.
- On travelling, always carry her bag.
- Please make a list for her on the journey.
- When you are going to be late, always inform her.
- When she is asking for help, always help her.
- When her feeling have been hurt, say sorry, do not argue.
- Offer to build a fire in wintertime
- When she talks to you, give your full attention.
- Going for a market always ask her preference.
- Ask her when she is planning to take a nap.
- Try to give her hugs a day, at least.
- Call her to ask how she is or to share something exciting from the office.
- Tell her I love you two times a day.
- Make her bed and clean up the Bedroom.
- Please do not give her a chance to wash your socks and shoes.
- Empty yourself the Rubbish Bin
- When you are out of town, call her.
- Surprise her occasionally with a love note or poem.
- Wash your car and clean the interior before having a date.
- Clean up your body before having sex or intimacy.
I hope you learn something new, and you will be implementing it with your loved ones; add your favourite love the way in the comment section. The article is originally published on Medium. Thank you for reading!